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A Better Approach to Dating: Navigating the Modern Dating Scene with God's Guidance

Updated: Jan 16

Whom will I marry one day? The answer to this question is the second most important decision we will ever make, second only to receiving Jesus as Lord and Savior. We must use wisdom and be guided by God toward finding the right spouse. But many people go after someone if they find them attractive, if it makes sense, if the circumstances line up right, if it feels right, or if others want it. But what if we first waited and sought God’s will and instead, let God reveal who He had designed for us to marry when the time was right? What if it was due to the Holy Spirit’s leading that we were drawn to a person and not mere attraction, intellect, emotion, circumstances, or due to anyone else’s desires and opinions?

In this book, author, teacher, and pastor Chris Dubois presents an alternative refreshing approach to dating that is often absent in the modern dating scene. Contemporary dating usually involves sexual compromise, unrealistic expectations, confusion, drama, rejection, and heartbreak. But it does not have to be this way! Dating does not have to involve great emotional pain and sexual compromise. Instead, it can lay a foundation for a fantastic future marriage that glorifies God and brings great blessings to a couple’s life. Marriage is God’s will for most people. But the key to a successful future together is how we go into marriage. The foundation often determines the result. Are we building on the sand or up`on the rock of Jesus?

Are you tired of dating online and going from one date to another without it ever leading anywhere? Are you tired of the sexual compromise, pressure, guilt, and shame that comes with falling into sin and not dating wisely with God’s guidance? Are you tired of one failed relationship after another? Are you tired of not knowing whether someone is suitable for you? If so, then this book is for you!

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About the Author

Chris Dubois is a follower of Jesus Christ, husband, dad, pastor, author, and child of God. He started following Jesus at a young age and had a powerful encounter with God as a teenager that forever changed his life and set him on a path to pursue God's calling in his life. He is the lead and founding elder and pastor of the Awakening Church which he founded in April 2009 (

He is also the founder and president of Chris Dubois Ministries which seeks to help people become completely holy or Christlike, mature, and Christlike in fulfillment of 2 Corinthians 7:1 ( He longs to see the Gospel of Jesus and the Kingdom both demonstrated and proclaimed throughout the earth in the power of the Holy Spirit for God’s glory and pleasure. If you wish to contact Chris, please email him at visit or reach out to him on social media.

Chris has a B.B. degree from Zion Bible College (presently NorthPoint Bible College) and an M.Div. degree from Gordon Conwell Theological Seminary.

He authored "Wholly Holy: A Training Manual for Living a Completely Holy Life," and "A Better Approach to Dating: Navigating the Modern Dating Scene with God's Guidance" which both can be purchased on Amazon.

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